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What to do in Life..??

Have you ever thought, what will you do in life??? Right from our childhood, as we grow, things become abstruse for us. We set a goal, we think we'll do this thing in future, one day but our goal changes on the other day and it goes on and never stops until we get to know what we've to actually/ultimately do.          It is a problem with of all us and mostly with those who are not guided at the right time.          I have a very easy solution for all those who face such minor problems. Why minor, you'll get t know at the end.                                                    Let me tell you, the same thing was happening with me at a point of time. Distressed with what to do in future, I was in quest for the answer. I remember, during my school days, our chairman sir used to say or used to remind us when...

Perception..

What is Perception?? What is its Worth?? Is it Required?? You'll get to know all this here. Don't you people think our thinking or our thoughts are nothing but perception or whatever we perceive. Among other factors in life, our perception plays an exponentially vital role.                 The best example I can quote here is, When a girl, a women is raped, you would have heard many times rapist saying, it was altogether her mistake, her fault that she was dressed up in such a way which was excessively tempting and attractive, consequently I just couldn't resist myself. On the other side, a girl/women says what I wear it just what I like and not at all with any intention to be raped, rest is on others' perception and that is utterly out of my control.                           Now my question is, Who decides what a girl or a boy wears is right or wrong or is up to the mark or no...

Assertiveness And Resilience

Both the terms are pretty similar to each other. If one possesses both the qualities, the person can said to be as a potent person by will power or tough from inside or within. One's state of mind is so positive in this concern that even in the most tragic times, one is positive and strong enough to combat the toughest adversities.                    Assertive means being adamant (but in a positive manner), or defending one's own point of view against that of others but in a cool or positive manner that is not intended to hurt others' emotions.  In our professional life, everyone, one day or the other faces such circumstances that test his/her assertiveness. Others will definitely try to prove you wrong before them whenever they will find time or opportunity to do so. Therefore one needs be be well prepared for those circumstances from now only. So that one doesn't face any difficulty in future.   It is an art th...