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What to do in Life..??

Have you ever thought, what will you do in life??? Right from our childhood, as we grow, things become abstruse for us. We set a goal, we think we'll do this thing in future, one day but our goal changes on the other day and it goes on and never stops until we get to know what we've to actually/ultimately do.          It is a problem with of all us and mostly with those who are not guided at the right time.          I have a very easy solution for all those who face such minor problems. Why minor, you'll get t know at the end.                                                    Let me tell you, the same thing was happening with me at a point of time. Distressed with what to do in future, I was in quest for the answer. I remember, during my school days, our chairman sir used to say or used to remind us when...
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Perception..

What is Perception?? What is its Worth?? Is it Required?? You'll get to know all this here. Don't you people think our thinking or our thoughts are nothing but perception or whatever we perceive. Among other factors in life, our perception plays an exponentially vital role.                 The best example I can quote here is, When a girl, a women is raped, you would have heard many times rapist saying, it was altogether her mistake, her fault that she was dressed up in such a way which was excessively tempting and attractive, consequently I just couldn't resist myself. On the other side, a girl/women says what I wear it just what I like and not at all with any intention to be raped, rest is on others' perception and that is utterly out of my control.                           Now my question is, Who decides what a girl or a boy wears is right or wrong or is up to the mark or no...

Assertiveness And Resilience

Both the terms are pretty similar to each other. If one possesses both the qualities, the person can said to be as a potent person by will power or tough from inside or within. One's state of mind is so positive in this concern that even in the most tragic times, one is positive and strong enough to combat the toughest adversities.                    Assertive means being adamant (but in a positive manner), or defending one's own point of view against that of others but in a cool or positive manner that is not intended to hurt others' emotions.  In our professional life, everyone, one day or the other faces such circumstances that test his/her assertiveness. Others will definitely try to prove you wrong before them whenever they will find time or opportunity to do so. Therefore one needs be be well prepared for those circumstances from now only. So that one doesn't face any difficulty in future.   It is an art th...

Who are you ???

And then I ask myself "who am I" ? Some of us know who we are but do we actually know, this is mandatorily required to be known. Most of us just pretend to know who we are actually. Many when asked about their selves begin speaking about them only but somehow end up revealing the facts that they are nothing but their parents' child.      A tradition is prevailing as I see having no end whatsoever. The tradition where initially father puts all his energy to earn a living for his family, and most importantly child. And eventually all his wealth is delegated to his child (specially son). Which shows, we are not doing anything, everything is just happening automatically. This seems to be a perpetual tradition.            But I am utterly unorthodox when it comes to this practice. What I wonder of most is (however there are many), many are even fighting for the land that is not owned by anyone in this entire universe, which is a gift of nature...

Why Stress???

What is Stress??  A question that has many answers according to different people. We have got the meaning and explanation of it just like any other thing in this world.                                             But it’s nothing but just a temporary and ephemeral thing just like any other thing in this entire universe, that’s how I see it . It’s very simple don’t make it abstruse, just take it easy.          A word which boggles my brain firstly, is Perception. Perception or belief is a very strong thing. A true quote by lord krishna- A man is made of his belief, as he believes so he is. I stick on this principle in my life and thus the meaning of stress for me is different from others.                                             ...

Live The Life

LIFE- What it actually is ? The perfect answer is and the perfect answer possibly one can give is- Life was not in the PAST and it's not in the FUTURE. Indeed, life is in the PRESENT, precisely the experience of the very moment by any being is LIFE.                           Everyone is tensed, afraid, perplexed... Tensed for what has happened in past, Afraid for what will happen in future and perplexed after seeing what's happening around. Confused about what to do but ends up doing nothing. I think the foundation is wrong or lacking somewhere.       Meanwhile a question arises- is it really possible to live life in harmony?       Yes, it is. But merely those are truly living life, whose mind and soul are in harmony, who are free from desire and wrath, who know their own soul.                  For this, a change is required now, a big change...

What is Life Skills ?

Everyone lives life but ways do vary. Everyone has one's own mindset or perception towards it. Since our childhood, we are taught such things by our parents while at home, teachers in schools, and our society. Some people learn from their surroundings or experiences as well, irrespective of aforementioned ones' and so on. And then accordingly everyone adopts a distinct way of living life.                                                                             But besides just living casually, in a corporate or professional world, it is not at all the matter, everything just gets changed here. We need to adapt ourselves accordingly. And exactly here comes the role of Life Skills. It is a subject matter of rationality. We are been exposed to such skills or way of living life which is the requirem...